How to Use The Conversation Coach Tool

You can submit conversations in a few different formats. Just follow the method that’s easiest for you:

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🔹 Option 1: Upload Screenshots (Best for Phone Users)

If you’re on your phone, screenshots are the easiest way to share your conversation.


Instructions:

Upload up to 10 screenshots at a timeIn your message to the tool, include:

Your name and which color your messages are (e.g., “I’m Jamie, and I’m the blue bubbles”)and the name of the other person


If you have more than 10 screenshots:

After your first batch, say:“Don’t answer yet, I’m going to send more screenshots.”Once you’ve uploaded everything, write:“Okay, I’m ready for you to analyze the conversation now.”



🔹 Option 1: Upload Screenshots (Best for Phone Users)

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If you’re on your phone, screenshots are the easiest way to share your conversation.


Instructions:

Upload up to 10 screenshots at a time

In your message to the tool, include:

Your name and which color your messages are (e.g., “I’m Jamie, and I’m the blue bubbles”)and the name of the other person


If you have more than 10 screenshots:

After your first batch, say:“Don’t answer yet, I’m going to send more screenshots.”

Once you’ve uploaded everything, write:

“Okay, I’m ready for you to analyze the conversation now.”

(Words do not need to be exact)


🔹 Option 2: Voice Memo or Audio Recording

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If your conversation was recorded, you can transcribe it and paste the text into the tool.

Free Transcription Option:

💬 Otter.ai (Free Plan)

300 free minutes per month

Up to 3 free uploads (after that, it’s a paid upgrade)

Upload your voice memo (MP3, M4A, etc.) Otter will auto-transcribe it. Review the transcript and label who’s speaking before pasting it into the tool


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🔹 Option 3: iMessage on Mac

Mac doesn’t let you export full conversations directly, but you can copy sections manually.

Steps:

1) Open Messages on your Mac

2) Scroll to the part you want to save

3) Click and drag to highlight a portion (do this in sections for best results)

4) Right-click → Copy or press Command + C

5) Paste into Google Docs, Notes, or TextEdit

6) Save the document and upload it to the tool

✅ Skip over image messages—they may disrupt formatting - unless they are relevant and have words (leaving voice memos is ok)

✅ Best for short to medium convos or selected highlights


🔹 Option 3: iMessage on Mac

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Mac doesn’t let you export full conversations directly, but you can copy sections manually.

Steps:

1) Open Messages on your Mac

2) Scroll to the part you want to save

3) Click and drag to highlight a portion (do this in sections for best results)

4) Right-click → Copy or press Command + C

5) Paste into Google Docs, Notes, or TextEdit

6) Save the document and upload it to the tool

✅ Skip over image messages—they may disrupt formatting - unless they are relevant and have words (leaving voice memos is ok)

✅ Best for short to medium convos or selected highlights


🔹 Option 4: Instagram or Facebook Messenger

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(Great option for longer DMs that happen in-app.)

✅ On Desktop or iPad (with keyboard):

1) Open the conversation in your browser (Instagram or Facebook Messenger)

2) Click and drag to highlight the convo

Or click in the message window and press:

Shift + Command + A (Mac)Shift + Ctrl + A (Windows)

3) Copy and paste into a Google Doc

4) Label each speaker if needed for the first 1 or 2 to get it going (e.g., You: / Them:)

5) Download as a .docx or .pdf file and upload it to the tool

✅ On iPad (no keyboard):

1) Use tap + drag to highlight text in chunks

2) Paste into Notes or Google Docs

3) Add speaker names manually

4) Download and upload as above

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